Before Following

i will randomly block fans of certain media without warning. this is often times nothing personal, so if i have blocked you and you would like to contest this block, message me on other social media and you can ask for an unblock

i use slurs i reclaim on occasion; the one i often stay away from, though, is queer. please do not call me queer under any circumstances

due to my autism/general neurodivergency, i speak/type in an odd manner and usually sound weird communicating to people when im comfortable with them, please tell me if this makes you uncomfortable because im not good at reading social cues either online or offline!
i use tone indicators depending on the person and statement. i am fine with them being used towards me

i dont post face pictures 99.9% of the time due to both dysphoria and not liking when people look at me. do not ask for pictures of me

i repost some nsfw text but try not to post any myself. minors are okay to follow but understand that i will NOT interact with them if a post is implied to be sexual in any way

i cant use neopronouns, and in general mix them up pretty easily unless were close friends or mutuals, so please dont get mad at me if i refer to you as just "they"

i am easily weirded out by fandoms around celebrities and people making layouts/edits/etc of them in the real world and people who make fanfiction about them. if your layout is based on a celebrity (as a person, not in a specific acting role) i might not follow back or just block

i can be very critical of some of the fandoms i am in and may avoid the fanbase as a whole. when i post about fandom, its for my own sake and not to appease others

i make a lot of jokes about divorce and deadbeat parents - if that makes you uncomfortable please tell me!

i usually cannot adhere to peoples kin/id double rules, as i dont keep track of who my mutuals id as (its way too much for my small brain) - however, if you need to softblock me because i follow a double, please do so. on that note, i do not care about doubles so no need to ask for a kin list or anything like that

if im following someone unsavoury, or rt something unsavoury, please dm me about it!

if we are mutuals and you are over the age of 18 (and okay with seeing nsfw), you can ask for my private account!

if it seems like i hate on a piece of media just to be a hater, its probably because i dislike the series for entirely personal reasons. i dont hold any genuine ill will towards fans of the series unless they happen to be unpleasant people. if there are exceptions to this in regards to media, i am open about them and the reasons why

i am wary of fans of the following media, it is nothing personal, i promise! but if you are a fan of those things and post about them frequently i might not interact with you (anything with an asterisk i have blacklisted)
assassin's creed

detroit:become human*

dream smp / minecraft youtubers as a whole

donkey kong*

homestuck / hiveswap friendship* / anything made by those people

gravity falls

markiplier / unus annus

pewdiepie

super mario

my full blacklist & other things are over on my about

black lives matter, stop asian hate, free palestine. human rights for all

anti-pedophilia

anti-cgl/ddlg/anything similar. anti-basically any kink that romanticizes or fetishizes abuse

anti-displaying your kinks in public to nonconsenting parties (including minors)

anti-truscum/transmed

anti-proana/anachan/anything promoting eating disorders/disordered eating
this does not mean i am against people who have eds. it means i am against trying to get others to have the same mindset regarding their ed and the idea of exchanging "tips" that contribute towards disordered eating and eds

anti-nfts

pro-choice

acab

pro-euthanasia

pro-sex work

adopt, dont shop

free healthcare and education

leftist, but critical of the left

i firmly believe fiction = reality based on personal experiences, and not just with things that are inherently "problematic"

anti-shipping or whatever people use nowadays to refer to people who dont like fetishization of immoral "kinks" in fiction